Stupidest thing ever is this infantilization of patriarchy like, “it’s boys who do those things; a ~~real man~~~ would never be that way” no listen to me, it is not little boys who crack jokes that make up patriarchy but actual grown-ass men engaging in actual physical, systematic, structural, emotional, verbal violence against women. Patriarchy is not puberty you grow out of but a backdrop wired into the fabric of our society.
Welp that episode was as disappointing as I thought it would be. Literally just fast forwarded all the Captain Swan crap, Hook is still a jerk (what a shocker!), Rumble is still a lying jerk (wow so surprising!), and there was barely any Regina or Elsa screen time. Hopefully the next episode will be better.